I’ve heard you can either leave it graveside or pour some off. The choice of action is mine when the events leading up to it are well out of my control. This is not so dire as a real life death, but when a core guild member abruptly leaves the feelings follow a similar path of remorse and remembrance.
The guilds I find usually have two basic principles: (1) play the game the way you want to spend your precious time playing, and (2) keep the air clear. What my guilds lack in purpose is well made up for it in community. People come and go (mostly leaving for something less casual), but a core group of guildies remains. Occasionally someone in the core group will leave as well. It sucks, but it sucks more when they leave on bad terms. Continue reading An Ale For the Fallen